Thriving Again: Stand Up for Yourself

If the challenges you face have to do with another person whose chronic unacceptable behavior causes you pain, you could be in a situation where you’re being used or even abused.

In order to thrive again, you need clear boundaries about what you will and will not accept from others. This can be difficult for those of us who are people pleasers or who are super conscientious about owning our role in a situation, or for those who are “fixers.”

Users need someone to use and fixers need someone to fix. Combine them and you get a really unhealthy dynamic.

If you’re a people pleaser, are scared of conflict, are easily guilt tripped, or are a “fixer,” you could be a prime target for manipulators.

This short video shares the 6 Tactics Manipulators Use. If you see a pattern of these being used on you, it’s probably time for you to set some clear boundaries or get out of a bad situation. Learn more here.

 

 

About Marnie Pehrson Kuhns

Marnie Pehrson Kuhns is a Certified SimplyAlign Practitioner™ who uses music and creativity to mentor you past barriers, fears and doubts to discover, create, align with, and deliver your soul’s song (the mission, message or purpose you are on this earth to live). Marnie is a best-selling author with 31 fiction and nonfiction titles. If you'd like Marnie and her husband Dave to work with you personally on Your Great Reinvention, get a FREE 20-minute strategy session with Marnie here.